I like many others – worldwide are deepened saddened by this tragic incident and it’s important to keep her family in prayer during this difficult period.
But make no mistake about it – depression and suicide are silent killers. So too are other mental disorders such as bipolar and schizophrenia. Even though these issues are sensitive and delicate, we need to come alive on these matters by discussing it openly and rationally.
Certainly, suicide survivours can reinforce the message that taking one’s own life is not the solution as treatment is readily available and recovery is always possible. These valuable sharing experiences can be carried out at schools, workplaces, religious places and at the community clubs.
Some of the risks factors of suicide include:
♦ Loss of interest or pleasure
♦ Decreased appetite
♦ Retardation, fatigue or agitation
♦ Feelings of worthlessness, guilt
♦ Impaired concentration, indecisiveness
♦ Financial distress
♦ Personal iisues, such as marital problems
Relationship can be tricky and not everyone can manage break-ups as it is by no means easy to cope with. For like grief, the emotional pain from failed relationships can be overwhelming. We must never dismiss a cry for help as a sign of weakness or view the sufferer as being bothersome.
Instead, family, friends, employers and religious groups all have a part to play in helping depressed people overcome their struggles which can prevent suicide. We can do this by showing empathy and concern to depressed people coupled with a listening ear; and by being in tune with the warning signs of depression.
Radio and television networks can play a supporting role as well, by raising more awareness of mental health issues and suicide through regular talks shows where experts and suicide survivours can discuss these issues candidly. Listeners can call in with their questions and shared experiences. It will be good to also invite enlightened employers and marriage counsellors who can give guidance and directions on how to better manage challenges in life’s journey.
In addition, counselling, group therapy and supportive psychotherapy can give encouragement and support to anyone who finds life meaningless.
RAYMOND ANTHONY FERNANDO